Different Wedding Ceremonies to Consider
Planning a wedding is an intricate process. The style of the ceremony itself should embody the style of the couple about to get married. If you and your partner are looking for a not so traditional wedding on Staten Island, these are a few ceremony types worth exploring.
Here are three distinct ceremonies:
Sand Ceremony:
You and your mate are about to become one. This ceremony is very symbolic. Both your partner and yourself will each receive a container filled with sand. You can both choose different hues or just choose any color sand, by the end of the ceremony, you both will mix your containers together to represent the joining of you two to become one. Typically, couples choose to do this at an outdoor wedding, so there is not any mess to clean up. Thus, if you are already planning an outdoor wedding, a sand ceremony is a perfect choice!
Potion Ceremony:
If you and your soon to be husband have a thing for magic, a potion ceremony may be for you. Very similar to a sand ceremony, each person would get a potion or typically colored water. A neat twist to the sand blending, you can choose a hue that matches each person’s aura, favorite color, or be simple and choose any color that suits your fancy. What makes this ceremony special is when the liquids are mixed together, a smoky effect results. You and your attendees will remember your ceremony for life.
Tea Ceremony:
More structured than the other options, a tea ceremony is very popular in Asian cultures to honor a couple’s elders. For tea lovers or those who would also like to honor their elders, this ceremony is very symbolic as well.
The tray selected for your tea symbolizes the foundation each individual has gained from their family. The next element of this ceremony is warming of the cups. The first year of a marriage will set the tone for the entirety of the relationship. For this reason, one must not place hot water into a cold cup to prevent cracks. Warming the glasses represents a preventative measure for keeping your relationship under control, and keeping your emotions under control with one another. The tea leaves themselves should be brewed carefully as well. Just as in a relationship, expect heat, anger, and challenges to arise. You do not want to brew the tea too long or it will get bitter. Similarly, you and your partner do not want to focus too much on your problems. Focusing on proper planning and solutions to your problems is pivotal. Lastly, the serving of the tea to elders is a couple’s way of thanking them for their shared experiences with you, and their wisdom. Everything they have taught you about life and a relationship is honored with this ceremony.
About Staten Island Weddings:
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